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  • Boston..

    Every year when we were in Boston we watched the marathoners run by.… read on

    Posted: April 15th, 2013 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Today is Momma’s birthday.

    … read on

    Posted: April 12th, 2013 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Christ is Risen!

    Indeed, He is Risen!… read on

    Posted: March 31st, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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  • On Becoming A Family

    I don’t have many words this week. But I want to share this with you. … read on

    Posted: March 27th, 2013 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • I have to start again somewhere..

    And this is how I’m feeling this spring.… read on

    Posted: March 25th, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Things I Miss (and not) about Boston

    Snow! (ice)… read on

    Posted: February 7th, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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    Posted: February 6th, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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  • La La La.. List time!

    –I took down the rest of the Christmas decorations today. … read on

    Posted: February 5th, 2013 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: writing
  • Perspective

    I was really run down yesterday. Possibly because we had a day-consuming House Blessing event on Saturday. Possibly because T had been doing Startup Weekend all weekend and I had to do House Blessing and Sunday Liturgy with the Babe on my own (um, and the rest of my in-laws) :)… read on

    Posted: January 28th, 2013 ˑ  1 Comment
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    Posted: January 16th, 2013 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Hey Seester..

    I miss you.… read on

    Posted: January 15th, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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  • A New Year

    A new you!

    Right? Isn’t that how the saying goes? … read on

    Posted: January 14th, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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  • O Christmas Tree!

    So, my phone is fritz-y these days, which is why I am now posting the story of how we got our Christmas tree here, and not on Instagram a few weeks ago.… read on

    Posted: January 11th, 2013 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Where We Came From

    Next door to Macia’s favorite coffee shop is Magpie, a store I could spend all my money in. … read on

    Posted: January 10th, 2013 ˑ  6 Comments
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    Posted: January 9th, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Wishing You Warmth

    for the holidays.… read on

    Posted: January 8th, 2013 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Memory Lane

    For those of you who know where this is, I’m sure you can understand how awesome it was to show Mace around the place.… read on

    Posted: January 7th, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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  • What Macie Says

    Her language is exploding. She went straight from two word sentences (Daddy sit. Mommy eat.) to whole paragraphs. Her first long sentence was (furiously) “NO WADDO READ BOOK!” … read on

    Posted: January 4th, 2013 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • Processing…

    I fully admit that one of the reasons I haven’t been blogging is because–all at the same time–I have nothing and far too many things to write about. … read on

    Posted: January 3rd, 2013 ˑ  1 Comment
    Filled under: writing
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    Posted: January 2nd, 2013 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Oh, Hello 2013.

    It’s nice to meet you. I didn’t expect you so soon. Perhaps I got too carried away at the end, there. … read on

    Posted: January 2nd, 2013 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Saying Goodbye

    I remember, after my grandmother died, my mother went back home to divvy up the inheritance with her siblings, and to clear out Big Mom’s house so that it could be sold.… read on

    Posted: August 27th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: family, home
  • What Are You Peeking At, Macia?

    Caidoc, Momma! He was baptized on Sunday.… read on

    Posted: July 27th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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    Posted: July 25th, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • A Cousin for Macie

    Two months ago, Macia got her first cousin on her daddy’s side.… read on

    Posted: July 23rd, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Blue

    berries!

    Her words are just exploding, though they are hard to articulate. She has morphed “cracker” into a back-of-the-throat “guh-cawh” and “avocado” is something like “clalala.” But she is talking. She mimics our sounds and the right number of syllables and is paying attention when we label things. Growing so fast..

    She likes to holler at us from another room or in the stroller: “MAMA!” and we holler back: “Macie!” “MAMA!” “Macie!” Sometimes she draws out the syllables, enjoying the vowels in full volume: “DaDAAAA!” “Macie!” DaDAAAAAAA!” “Macie!”

    I’m thinking about trimming her hair. Not a … read on

    Posted: July 20th, 2012 ˑ  3 Comments
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  • Water, Oil, Fire

    Her dress is finished. She has new white shoes. I have enough lace left over to make a headband or a bow for her hair.… read on

    Posted: July 19th, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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    Posted: July 18th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Two’s Day on Friday

    We packed up the diaper bag and headed down to the children’s museum in Fort Point. On Fridays, they have free entry, and it’s so close to Flour Bakery and Barrington Coffee, that there was something for everyone!… read on

    Posted: July 17th, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Monday Thoughts

    Today is Monday (ha, Monday, string beans).… read on

    Posted: July 16th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Almost 20, Brought to You by Instagram

    So, I joined Instagram. … read on

    Posted: July 13th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • rose + mary

    Sitting in front of the Mary grotto while my Macie Rose played in the sand, I stared blankly at Momma’s huge rosemary bush, following he twisted branches in and out of the center of the bush. It was tough and twiggy–a hearty desert plant. I pinched some leaves off and crushed them between my fingers, inhaling the strong, woodsy scent.… read on

    Posted: July 12th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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    Posted: July 11th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Mourning, Still

    I wasn’t expecting the grief that surfaced when I was alone at Daddy’s house. … read on

    Posted: July 10th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Apricots and Sunshine Days

    Macia and I picked apricots.… read on

    Posted: July 9th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • F. Liszt

    Does anyone remember Victor Borge? He did the phonetic punctuation bit? He also did a bit where he plays a piece by Fliszt. It’s not F. Liszt, of course. You don’t say “M. Ozart,” do you?… read on

    Posted: July 6th, 2012 ˑ  3 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • On Leave. I left!

    This is what I started to write the first day of my adoption leave, way back on May 1:… read on

    Posted: July 5th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Six Years

    Six years ago today, I had been married for just a day. … read on

    Posted: April 30th, 2012 ˑ  3 Comments
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    Posted: April 25th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • 16ish Months

    You may have been looking for an update on the Babers on Good Friday. I’m sorry if you were disappointed. Maybe this will make up for it. Let’s do it in list form. #yaylists!… read on

    Posted: April 20th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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    Posted: April 18th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Happy Birthday, Momma

    I love you so much.… read on

    Posted: April 12th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Sweet Leaf

    You saw one happy peek at our Sunday visit to Sweet Leaf on Long Island during our NY trip. … read on

    Posted: April 11th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • 26.2

    I was a runner in high school. Yes, I was a proud member of the group that said things like “my sport is your sport’s punishment” (don’t ask me why that was cool–did it make us tough?)… read on

    Posted: April 11th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Climb Every.. Chair

    Today we’re heading up to Macia’s 16 month check up. Yes, the kid is 16 months old.. is that crazy to anyone else? … read on

    Posted: April 5th, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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    Posted: April 4th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Abundance

    We have lots of carrots. ‘Tis the season, apparently, for our CSA produce share, but I made the mistake of asking Taylor to get “some carrots” at the store… read on

    Posted: April 3rd, 2012 ˑ  9 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • We came home from New York and set up Macia’s new crib (which we picked up the week before) and wiggled it into a temporary spot in our bedroom. Just for that first night. … read on

    Posted: April 2nd, 2012 ˑ  7 Comments
    Filled under: home
  • A Little Bit West Back East

    Stumptown. Started in Portland (taking its name from the city’s nickname), the only location in New York. Fabulous coffee.… read on

    Posted: March 30th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Grumpy McGrumpy Pants

    After Gimme! we went to Cafe Grumpy. I didn’t take any pictures because (TMI warning) Macia had a stinky diaper and we needed to find some place to change her and I was thirsty but didn’t want any more coffee and the shop was small inside and it was cold outside and we had done a lot of walking and the Babe and I were tired but she wouldn’t go to sleep in the mei tai.

    @thepaulist took better pictures. 

    Um. So I guess it was a good thing we were at Cafe Grumpy. I know … read on

    Posted: March 29th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Gimme!

    I think Macia, by far, had the most fun at Gimme! coffee. The inside of the cafe was so small that, with a wiggly toddler, it only made sense to drink our coffee outside. A bit chilly, but there was a nice bench against a deep window sill which formed a perfect “playpen” for the Babe :)… read on

    Posted: March 28th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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    Posted: March 28th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Bowery

    Bowery Coffee, across the street from the Houston-Bowery Mural Wall, won my vote for “best ambiance.”… read on

    Posted: March 28th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • New York

    We had several objectives in visiting New York. … read on

    Posted: March 26th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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    Posted: March 21st, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Time Passeth

    I am bad at multi-tasking. Just ask Taylor. If I start a sewing project or a baking endeavor, all else gets put on hold until. it’s. finished. … read on

    Posted: March 21st, 2012 ˑ  6 Comments
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  • Up To?

    Up to? What is she up to these days?… read on

    Posted: March 9th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • She’s So Beautiful!

    Yes, we hear that a lot. I am not ashamed to brag about it either, since we had nothing to do with her genetics.… read on

    Posted: March 8th, 2012 ˑ  7 Comments
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    Posted: March 7th, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • It’s A Girl!

    Becoming parents has been a funny process for us. Not least because the getting of the Babe has been so unusual and drawn out. … read on

    Posted: March 6th, 2012 ˑ  32 Comments
    Filled under: writing
  • Fourteen Angels

    I remember Momma’s voice. As time goes on after her death, much fades, but I will always remember so much of her voice. [Also, I thank God for all those cheesy home videos we have. It is such a blessing to hear her voice again, even if I know it's only another memory.]

    One of the songs she used to sing–not to us, really, but it was in one of the song books we had for piano and she’d play it for me occasionally–was the Fourteen Angels song from a Hansel and Gretel opera.

    This is the prettiest version that I … read on

    Posted: March 5th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: writing
  • Babe-isms

    When she wants to get down (from her high chair or from the mei tai) she points down and growls: dooooooww… read on

    Posted: March 2nd, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • A Poem

    ..from  my very talented sister. … read on

    Posted: March 1st, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
    Filled under: quotable
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    Posted: February 29th, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
    Filled under: writing
  • Lost. And Found

    The great irony of our journey to parenthood, to me, is the bottle brush that hangs by our sink. We use it almost daily to wash out the Babe’s bottles, but we didn’t buy it for her. We didn’t even buy it for baby bottles.… read on

    Posted: February 28th, 2012 ˑ  5 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • Everything In Its Place

    “You shouldn’t hang knit ties, Wifey, because they stretch out. You have to roll them and store them that way,” he says.… read on

    Posted: February 27th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
    Filled under: made by me
  • Rompin’

    If this Summer is anything like this Winter (being abnormally warm), the Babe will be prepared. … read on

    Posted: February 24th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Quilted Pink (and Green and Orange and Turquoise and Yellow and a Little Bit Red)

    I once said I’d never make a quilt. Which was from the beginning a complete lie because I had, in fact, already made one quilt. A crazy quilt. From a huge box of bitty vintage scraps my grandmother had saved. The panels I sewed became the top of the duvet which we still use in the winter. Taylor loves it.

    The idea of making a quilt–that is, going out and buying new material, cutting it up, and sewing it all back together–still doesn’t make a lot of sense to me, and yet, I have made another quilt. A little one. … read on

    Posted: February 23rd, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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    Posted: February 22nd, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • danceFIT, pants fit

    I don’t think I would have signed up without Viv doing it, too. I’d never done ballet (or any traditional dance, really) and the closest I come to graceful is when I’m on a crowded dance floor … read on

    Posted: February 21st, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
    Filled under: writing
  • Back!

    Ah, that’s better.

    I think the best way to get back into the swing of things is in list-form.

    [I will make a rule: I won't post more than one list a week. I can handle that.]

    • We had a great visit with Uncle Elliott two weekends ago. I got some cute shots, but haven’t processed them yet. Story of my life.
    • I did some sewing this weekend. I finished the Babe’s quilt on Friday and I made her a little romper dress from a romper Momma made me when I was the Babe’s size. It’s super cute. Pictures forthcoming
    • … read on

    Posted: February 20th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: writing
  • A Break

    I am going to take a break this week. At least from writing. … read on

    Posted: February 13th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Babers Update

    Yesterday, we bought the Babe a new car seat. ‘Cuz seriously you guys, that kid is getting huge. And don’t tell me, “oh, but you’re just missing her bitty-baby days,” because we weren’t able to be there for all of those days.… read on

    Posted: February 10th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • Dreaming

    I am restless.

    The future is a big mish-mash of mostly-certain and less-certain and not-certain-at-all.… read on

    Posted: February 9th, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
    Filled under: writing
  • Randoms

    I want to write today, but I can’t form an organized enough thought to do anything other than a list. Still, lists are fun sometimes, too.

    –Taylor loves quilts. And kilts. And woolens. And anything knit or crocheted. I knit. I’ve learned (and un-learned) how to crochet. I love wool, and I’m not opposed to kilts (in the right context (no, Taylor, a marathon is not the right context)). But for years I have told him I don’t make quilts. It makes no sense to me to cut up perfectly good material into smaller pieces only to sew them all … read on

    Posted: February 8th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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    Posted: February 8th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Cloud 9

    “Oh, Anne–congratulations! You must just be on cloud nine. How exciting–it’s finally over.”

    I’ve been getting that a lot lately.… read on

    Posted: February 6th, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
    Filled under: family
  • My Golden Hour

    Babes and I have spent some time at the park this week. … read on

    Posted: February 3rd, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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    Posted: February 1st, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Looking Back

    A friend reminded me of when we first met the Babe.… read on

    Posted: January 31st, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • Walking Along

    Yep, the Babe is walking.… read on

    Posted: January 30th, 2012 ˑ  3 Comments
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  • Sunday Thoughts

    Today I was thinking about clothes.… read on

    Posted: January 29th, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • And Joy, Again

    We are laying low today. Babe and I are enjoying a quiet recovery day while Taylor studies au cafe.… read on

    Posted: January 28th, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • Joy

    Most of you have seen the news on twitter or facebook already. That the Babe can stay with us.… read on

    Posted: January 27th, 2012 ˑ  6 Comments
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  • Thursday Things I Love

    pat-a-pat-pat (telling me she wants to be picked up)

    foo-foo-foo (whispered when she’s hungry)… read on

    Posted: January 26th, 2012 ˑ  6 Comments
    Filled under: writing
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    Posted: January 25th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Tuesday Three’s-Day

    No, I won’t ever be ready. I think part of being an eternal being is that we are never ready to say goodbye. We weren’t meant to.… read on

    Posted: January 24th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Today Is Monday, Again

    The days just keep coming. One by one they tick away.… read on

    Posted: January 23rd, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Just That Kind of Morning

    … read on

    Posted: January 22nd, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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    Posted: January 21st, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Babers McMoany Pants

    This week, there’s been a lot of moaning. We suspect it’s mostly teething–kid is working on her left molar, poor thing. But that cranky tooth apparently makes it less comfortable to communicate. … read on

    Posted: January 20th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Still..

    Eight days.… read on

    Posted: January 19th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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    Posted: January 18th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Let’s Get Cozy

    I have another blogger crush. These are the crushes where I look through a blog and drool over every picture, every idea, every made-thing and want it to be my home, my life, my crafts, too.… read on

    Posted: January 17th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • A Little Sewing

    We got a package last week.. from some wonderful friends :)

    What was inside?… read on

    Posted: January 16th, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • I Dunno!

    We took Christmas down this weekend.. Poor Babe. “Where’s the tree?”… read on

    Posted: January 15th, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
    Filled under: home
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    Posted: January 14th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Babe Update

    How would you all like to have Fridays be the “update on what the Babe of Cutness has been doing this week” days?… read on

    Posted: January 13th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • Lucky

    People have  been telling me how lucky the Babe is to be with Taylor and me right now. We’ve been told how noble and selfless we are to open our hearts and home to her, and how wonderful we are for loving her.… read on

    Posted: January 12th, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
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    Posted: January 11th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • And She Shall Be Called…

    Y’know, some people long for nicknames. And others naturally evoke an abundance. … read on

    Posted: January 10th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • The Obligatory Resolutions Post

    Do these make sense to you? I think I mostly know what I mean as I list them here. We shall see.… read on

    Posted: January 9th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Sunday, Ice Cream!

    Saturday, chicken.… read on

    Posted: January 8th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • … Saturday Chicken

    Friday, fresh fish. … read on

    Posted: January 7th, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Friday, Fresh Fish

    Thursday, roast beef. … read on

    Posted: January 6th, 2012 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Thursday, Roast Beef

    Wednesday, zoooooooup!

    … read on

    Posted: January 5th, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • … (Wednesday zooooooooup!)

    … read on

    Posted: January 4th, 2012 ˑ  3 Comments
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  • Tuesday, Spaghetti

    Monday, string beans.

    … read on

    Posted: January 3rd, 2012 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Today Is Monday

    Monday, string beans. … read on

    Posted: January 2nd, 2012 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • What I Have Learned

    I have been “momma” for two months. I have been changing diapers and filling bottles and washing clothes and wiping boogers and kissing fingers and toes for a wonderful nine weeks.… read on

    Posted: January 1st, 2012 ˑ  4 Comments
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    Posted: November 2nd, 2011 ˑ  5 Comments
    Filled under: family, wordless
  • We Will Keep Hope

    Beautiful words from a dear friend…

    “I look forward to the day when the 3 of you come to the ranch on a beautiful summer’s day filled with sunshine… read on

    Posted: November 1st, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • Haunted House

    All houses wherein men have lived and died
    Are haunted houses. …
    read on

    Posted: October 31st, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
    Filled under: quotable
  • It Takes A Village

    On Saturday, I went through some pictures with the Babe’s foster mother. Many pictures that, surprisingly, I have never seen before. Moments we were not present for. Smiles we never saw, laughter we never heard.… read on

    Posted: October 29th, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
    Filled under: family
  • Autumn

    My mother died in March. On the eleventh. Two and a half years ago.… read on

    Posted: October 27th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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    Posted: October 26th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • That Moving Day?

    We are still waiting.… read on

    Posted: October 24th, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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    Posted: October 19th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Moving

    Last weekend was good. It was great and very full. And here is another one looming, just down the road–how quickly time moves on..

    Friday, after running a few errands, we headed out to see the Babe. It was a special visit this time because we spent the night at her foster family’s house, in preparation for bring her home with us in (hopefully) a week or so. We spent the morning with her, watching her with her foster family and getting a more firm idea of her schedule, her moods, her disposition when we’re not actively playing with her. … read on

    Posted: October 13th, 2011 ˑ  6 Comments
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    Posted: October 12th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Seasonal

    Ecclesiastes said it best: to everything there is a season.  A time to live and to die; a time to grieve and to rejoice. A time to eat asparagus and a time to eat squash. There is a proper season for it all.… read on

    Posted: October 11th, 2011 ˑ  4 Comments
    Filled under: recipes
  • Engaged

    One week ago, my younger sister’s boyfriend asked her to marry him. She may, perhaps, have been furious with me, even in her ecstatic joy, when I admitted that I knew about it (well) ahead of time. … read on

    Posted: October 10th, 2011 ˑ  3 Comments
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    Posted: October 4th, 2011 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • On Waiting..

    Timely advice, just when I was wishing things would move more quickly..

     

    The Slow Work of God… read on

    Posted: September 27th, 2011 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • A Home for Baby

    In many ways, simply fostering an infant seems easier to me. If one takes the infant home, as a foster parent, one knows that the infant will only be with you for a time, that he won’t stay in your home forever. And you will, at some point, have to say goodbye. I don’t pretend to believe that having that knowledge will make saying goodbye any easier, really, when the time comes…… read on

    Posted: September 26th, 2011 ˑ  8 Comments
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  • the golden hour: While Sails

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    Posted: September 7th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Take on Hope

    My mother always told me: “Praise the Lord!  Even through gritted teeth.” And no one describes better than Tolkien the grim resolution to continue on the way… read on

    Posted: September 2nd, 2011 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • You’ll Always Be..

    I wake up to this song most mornings.  Lilting and a bit mournful, it reminds me of being so far from our baby girl, but still treasuring the time we’ve had with her.  We’ll always have that.

    Happy 9-month birthday, Little One.… read on

    Posted: September 1st, 2011 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • 5 Months?

    A veritable eternity in the life of a nine-month old. Or for the waiting, hopeful-parents of a nine-month old.… read on

    Posted: August 31st, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Waiting…

    Two more hours and I will cycle home from work.

    Two hours and 10 minutes and I will call the foster mother… read on

    Posted: August 30th, 2011 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Flowers for Mary

    On August 15, the Church celebrated the feast of the Assumption and Dormition of Mary, God-bearer. Tradition tells us that when it was Mary’s time to die, the apostles were mystically transported to her side, with the exception of Thomas who was otherwise engaged. The apostles were there with her at the moment of her death and they buried her. A few days later, Thomas arrived and wanted to see her body one last time, so much did he love his “mother.” When they opened the tomb, a strong scent of lovely flowers was all that remained. She was not … read on

    Posted: August 29th, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Anticipation

    Sitting in the sunny window seat of a cafe last week, glancing outside between sips of my cappuccino and notes to my husband on chat, I saw a young man hanging around in front of the cafe.  … read on

    Posted: August 24th, 2011 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • Mood

    I am in a mood.  And this song about sums it up. This last week without my husband is already one of the hardest weeks of the summer.  And it’s only Monday.… read on

    Posted: August 22nd, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Hold on Hope

    A dear friend shared this song with me tonight.  She told me it reminds her of her brother, who was killed several years ago… read on

    Posted: August 18th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • CS Lewis on Prayer

    M: “I know how hard you’ve been praying, and God’s answering your prayers.”

    Lewis: “That’s not why I pray. I pray because I can’t help myself. I pray because the need flows out of me all the time, waking and sleeping. It hasn’t changed God, it’s changed me.”

    … read on

    Posted: August 15th, 2011 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Red

    I remember very clearly how I felt, walking along a sunny side-street in Ravenna, Italy, when I felt the first mild cramping that signaled the beginning of my period.… read on

    Posted: August 10th, 2011 ˑ  15 Comments
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  • Come

    Peter called out: “Lord, if it is You, command me to come out to You on the water.”

    And the Lord said: “Come.”                        … read on

    Posted: August 9th, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Marry for Love

    “Very few people ever state properly the strong argument in favour of marrying for love or against marrying for money.… read on

    Posted: August 5th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • a word from Balthasar:

    It is possible for us to hear the word of God because God’s world is open to us.  Most Christians do not realize that this is by no means a matter of course, but a miracle of the Father’s utterly free love. Every day it should astonish us anew, just as a lover is transported in bliss through the answering love of the woman he loves.… read on

    Posted: August 4th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • by anne black

    So I have an announcement.  Of sorts.

    One of the items I’d like to make available in my Etsy shop is prints of my photographs.  But I’m having a hard time choosing which pictures I should include.

    Could you do me a favor?  … read on

    Posted: August 2nd, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Unfailing

    Do not look forward to what may happen tomorrow; the same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you tomorrow and every day.… read on

    Posted: August 2nd, 2011 ˑ  3 Comments
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  • On Edge

    She is 8 months old today.  34 weeks.  243 days.

    I have seen her less than 30 times in her whole life.… read on

    Posted: August 1st, 2011 ˑ  5 Comments
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  • When It’s Over

    How I’m feeling as Wednesday marches forward..

    Wake Me Up
    by Nora Jones… read on

    Posted: July 31st, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • on t-shirts (fitted)

    I am not usually a t-shirt person.

    I’ve known women who rarely wear anything other than jeans or jean shorts and an assortment of tees.  There is nothing wrong with that, of course–t-shirts are very comfortable, modest, and relatively cool most of the time–but I never liked the way I looked in them.… read on

    Posted: July 28th, 2011 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • Newly Wed

    So many smiles.  Clapping.  Tear-wiping.  Even a little whooping and hollering.  Mr. & Mrs. for the first time.… read on

    Posted: July 25th, 2011 ˑ  6 Comments
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  • the golden hour: welcome

    inspired by Miss Perry… read on

    Posted: July 23rd, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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    Posted: July 19th, 2011 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Emerald City

    Cyclists whizzing by, odd-shaped packages tethered to backs and bikes.

    Cafes of all quality and variety on so many corners.… read on

    Posted: July 18th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Toilet Seats

    Growing up, we had a lot of rules that our parents set down for our betterment and the general upkeep of the house. Always wash your hands before playing the piano; close the lid and push the bench back in when you’re done. Four [chair] legs on the floor at all times. No hopping over the back of the couch to sit down. Close the door when you leave the house.… read on

    Posted: July 7th, 2011 ˑ  3 Comments
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  • Two as One

    Being apart from Taylor has made me realize how much a part of me he is. I am more than just Anne with him; my identity seems prone to shifting without his anchoring presence near me.

    It’s not that I forget that I am a wife, but without one’s husband… read on

    Posted: July 5th, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Not As the World Gives

    Mass this Sunday was my first of the summer without Taylor.  Last week we were in California together.  The week before, Seattle.  It was a strange feeling, surrounded by people but sitting by myself. … read on

    Posted: June 23rd, 2011 ˑ  4 Comments
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  • Everybody

    Oh, Pandora.  You slay me with your Pink Martini station. Have a listen with me this evening:

    Everybody by Ingrid Michaelson… read on

    Posted: June 22nd, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • To Tear

    You can read “tear” two ways.  One, those salty-secretions from your eyes–in joy or sorrow or laughter or allergies.  Two, as in things-torn, the act of ripping… read on

    Posted: June 22nd, 2011 ˑ  7 Comments
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  • Goodnight, Baby

    We love to sing to our Little Girl.. and when I get to put her to sleep, I have a special song I like to sing. You’ve probably heard it before. Here are the words.… read on

    Posted: June 21st, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Envoy

    Clear was the night: the moon was young:
    The larkspurs in the plots
    Mingled their orange with the gold
    Of the forget-me-nots.…
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    Posted: June 20th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Kindred

    When I first discovered Ashley Rodriguez through her blog, her then-current post was a recipe for bacon caramels.  I instantly fell in love.   … read on

    Posted: June 17th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • An Invitation

    Welcome.

    For renidemus is, first and foremost, an invitation.  An invitation to sit down with me, to read what I can offer you, and to offer your thoughts in return.… read on

    Posted: June 16th, 2011 ˑ  14 Comments
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  • In This House of Brede

    “Even at Vespers in these days Abbess Catherine, as if echoing the abbot’s words, thought, as the antiphon to the Magnificat was sung, of the Visitation, when the Virgin Mary, with the angel’s announcement beating in her heart, had gone “in haste,” as St. Luke says, to visit her far older cousin. … read on

    Posted: June 15th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • God has created…

    a world big enough for all the lives He wishes to be born. It is only our hearts that are not big enough to want them and accept them…… read on

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  • Traveling

    Today I am flying to California to see my family. My WHOLE family.   [Except for baby girl.. She has to stay on this coast.]  My flight was delayed 15 minutes, … read on

    Posted: June 10th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • More Than Goodbye

    It was so much more than simply saying goodbye to my husband for a few days, or a week, or several. It was more than knowing I would be facing an empty house coming home from work, or going to bed alone every night.… read on

    Posted: June 6th, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • One Thousand

    With my head perched on the sill of my bedroom window, I hear birds in neighboring trees through my wire-grid screen.  When I focus closely, every part of the world fits into neat little boxes. … read on

    Posted: June 1st, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • The Golden Key

    “You must not mind my asking you questions, for you may ask me the same questions, every one of them, and any others that you like. How old are you?”

    “Ten,” answered Tangle.

    “You don’t look like it,” said the lady.

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    Posted: May 25th, 2011 ˑ  2 Comments
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  • Mourning

    The other day, I read a post by a recently-delivered mama of twins.  [Please read it, it's wonderful!] While her boys are mostly healthy, they were born a bit premature, and so they had to spend some time in the NICU, which is always hard for parents.  And not less so “just” because their babies aren’t severely sick.

    Her experience with her twin boys really resonated with me.  In my struggle with infertility, and now with a lengthy and drawn-out and unpredictable adoption experience, I feel a growing sense of loss.… read on

    Posted: May 23rd, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Etsy!

    I have officially opened my Etsy shop. *cue dramatic music*
    … read on

    Posted: May 17th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • A Wind Sprang High in the West

    …like a wave of unreasonable happiness, and tore eastward across England, trailing with it the frosty scent of forests and the cold intoxication of the sea. … read on

    Posted: May 14th, 2011 ˑ  1 Comment
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  • Enough

    I am in limbo. Hovering, or perhaps falling, in an empty space I didn’t even know existed in the realm of “becoming mother.”  … read on

    Posted: May 12th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Some Sewing..

    Oh dear, I haven’t been nearly as good at keeping up on my sewing lately as I should.  And I haven’t even been good about sharing the things I have done with you.  … read on

    Posted: May 9th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • on recipes

    “I feel a recipe is only a theme, which an intelligent cook can play each time with a variation.”

    - Madame Benoit… read on

    Posted: February 16th, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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  • Hungry for More?

    Before I moved in here, I had cozy little digs at blogspot, which served me well for several years.  But things change, husbands get in to web development, and new spaces are created.

    If you’re looking for more to read or want to hear more details of my story, go have a look-see at the past and let me know what you think.

    Thanks so much for stopping by!

     … read on

    Posted: January 1st, 2011 ˑ  No Comments
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